You Are The Inspiration

I see the wings of corruption
Spread far and wide
Like an unearthed Dinosaur
Fed with existent tide

I see the ministerial angels
In the fancy colored 
Feather light frills of pride
Flying in the puissance
Peer pressure, unable to denounce
Caught in the false glitter
Of the lauded media


Reality of our times
No longer a half hidden exchange
Under the table
Is this ruling party's 
"On the table" issue
To be faced,


This perhaps undermines
Decisions otherwise,
Better possible


Take measures
hitherto not taken
To ensure  mandatory
Co operations
Expected...................
Understood
acted upon
and challenged 


Let not religion become
Pickled treats
To fanatic, drunken mass;
But ensure progress
Worthy of royal pride!

So that the setting Sun
From the west at dusk
half turns
To view the hue of the rising Sun
Of the eastern energetic skies.........

Hope I hug you dearer;
Love I plead you every where
To open the conscience
Of the men in power
To lead stronger
Worthy of their bold blood
Acts cowardly
Of bombing to death
Innocent many unaware
That last breath
he was taking....terrorised!.

May the warm hands of 
Unconditional love
Embarrassed not;
Eternally run the show
In man kind's mind.


Eulogize to change their opinions
To the popular rages of our times
To ensure the validity ;
Of higher rated tenure!

To make the world 
Stand up with due interest
and apparent appreciation
Of " INDIA  AS A SECULAR COUNTRY"

TALL

Many a tree; unnoticed passed by.....
Fell to this earth giving shelter to many
How oft it must in toil of growth sigh
Did man think twice to cut any?

Forest of them burn away.....
The earth misses it in a large way
If it had a way to speak or have a say
Would it have let you cut it ;any way?

Men of great potential, great valor
Must also  the bed of death face...
Then why not add as much color
As possible to life keeping pace?


It is hardship he weathered brave
That makes him stand apart
Makes human my heart; crave
His friendship girdle ; to be a part....


Tall he stood iconic
towering in life
Massive and stoic
weathering strife...........

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~malinikadir

DEEP FEARS resolved..............

"Neeya naana" a program in Vijay T.V
The show is a debate show;
and The show on October 7th
held a comprehensive view
On the topic swirling in my mind.Our daughter- in -law" Kavitha" participated in this show.
I feel a deep sense of gratefulness to the team who  researched and conducted this show
anchored by GOPINATH

I must; tell all my well wishers, friends and the surrounding neighbours....
I have been traversing  some years of my recent life,
In comprehensive fears filled....my mind in tears at the sight of the baby......as she grew up......
a result of cross cousin marriage
Unable to hate, or love.....
But pulled into a vortex of inner dejection too
"depression"

My life apart....I do not debate it as it was entirely my choice.
So the plus and minus my own responsibility
It has had its own challenges and I have found my own ways of facing it...
But; having married in close relative

I have chosen to marry my mother's youngest brother.

I now have three children .................

I am in the lookout to find a groom for my own children

......mind has been in inner research  all the time.....fears lurking unvoiced...........

Yazhini's birth had its own emotional, moral....
and deep rooted fears evoked..........
......being a bit of a softy;poetic in disposition.....having married for love......
I care more than I should and worry more than I should....
emotional to the core...............

This debate were stability in marriage is concerned....it is true;

relatives circle and care is definitely perhaps overpowering ;in the larger sense

yet gives a deeper security too!an Indian system to take pride in......

"DRAVIDIAN KINSHIP"........is some thing to  be valued!

also the fact that 48% and 52% is the only difference as far as genetic disorder is concerned.....

and 25% there is gene sharing in mama and akka's daughter marriage coupling
and 12 to 13% gene pool sharing in cross cousin marriages is a clear fact to remember.eases the mind .....
to a great extent.

If and in cases were we have chronic persistent conditions.....
perhaps a logical decision to take is also required.......

Socially a stable system, undoubted....for if not despite misunderstanding, tug- a -war issues
we still hold on......
and I myself would not go to these lengths to see happiness in faces not worrying about myself,or my ill reputations in consequence.....
    "beyond trivia.....unity is strength!!"

had it not been for the kinship and "our people" feelings and the help in various tricky situations of life.


       "THE SENSE OF BELONGING"

Which is the happiness of being related connected
then the distance of time, place of residence, why country of residence...
the inability to say hello every day is greatly shortened.....

as" true love is understanding the other's pain"

you too can experience it.............

"let us find happiness in unity,

progress in relationship and trust!"

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~malinikadir